There are special moments that tend to come once in a lifetime. Graduating from university, moving into your first home, accepting your dream job, and asking the person you love to marry you.
There is no escaping the fact that, when planning to get down on one knee, you’re bound to feel a bit nervous. Wondering whether your partner will answer your fateful question the way you hope will certainly be at the forefront of your mind.
However, that is not the only aspect you will have to think about. There are many other questions to take into consideration too. What ring should you get them? Where and when should you propose? What should you say? Each of these questions require some careful thought.
Your outfit choice is important too. Whether you crack the question by the sea at dawn or on a starry night under the romantic Eiffel Tower in Paris, it is crucial to opt for a look that will complete this unforgettable moment. Therefore, we have put together some tips on how to dress for such a pivotal occasion.
Do not go crazy with colours
A proposal is a unique moment. The focus should be on you, your partner, and your emotions. Your outfit shouldn’t become a distraction. Combining too many colours may ruin the occasion and spoil the memory of such an important event.
Stick to neutral colours such as black, white, grey, and navy blue. By all means, you can add some colourful accessories to jazz up your outfit. However, as a rule of thumb, don’t go over the top – two or three colours are more than enough. This will help you keep the focus on your relationship and the beautifully emotional moment!
Dress the part
Most proposals tend to be a surprise. If you are planning to blow away your better half by suddenly getting down on one knee, be careful not to reveal your sweet intentions from the outset.
For instance, if you would like to ask them to marry you in the heart of your favourite park, don’t throw your most expensive suit on. It would not take a genius to realise you have something special in mind. Opt for a more casual style and pretend that you are just going for a stroll.
If it’s chilly outside, put a nice sweater on and wear a pair of good-looking chinos. Act the part to start with and then pour your feelings out when the perfect moment arises.
Favour comfort over style
There is no denying that you want to look your best when your propose. This said, it can be an emotionally demanding moment. From reciting your proposal speech to presenting the engagement ring, many things will be on your mind.
If you discover in the process that the elegant outfit you are wearing is not very comfortable, you may suddenly find it difficult to concentrate on the moment. Therefore, choose a look that gives you a full range of motion (including kneeling, of course!) and always favour comfort over style.
Think of the backdrop
Another significant aspect to take into consideration is the backdrop. Once you have chosen where and when to ask your partner to marry you, you should start thinking about an outfit that would best suit that specific location and scenery. It is likely that, after (if not during) the proposal, you will have time to take some pictures to memorialise the special occasion.
If you’re on a holiday in Italy and find yourself on the Amalfi coast or among the canals of Venice, pastel shirts or polos would fit your surroundings perfectly. If you are on a chic rooftop restaurant in London you may want to consider a more formal outfit that resonates well with the classy ambience.
Keep the ring hidden
The engagement ring is every proposal’s most iconic symbol. Hence, it is always fundamental to pick an outfit that ensures some ‘hiding space’ for it. One option could be to store it inside a backpack. However, if you are proposing in a Michelin-star restaurant, a bag may look slightly out of place.
Therefore, it may be wise to opt for coats, jackets, or trousers that have large pockets. This will allow you to conceal a ring box without your partner noticing. When you are ready, take it from its refuge and surprise your better half with the big question.
Asking your partner to marry you requires a lot of preparation. From selecting the ideal location to buying the perfect ring, there is so much to think about.
Picking the right outfit for the occasion is fundamental too. We hope that these tips will help you choose a look that will truly suit one of the most emotional moments of your life.